OK so i didnt make it back for naps but here i am before bed updating. With papa coming tomorrow I expect to be busy the next few days, so I really wanted to share some of this.
I know we are with family, but this is still a full on move for us. We live here again and we are having to adjust our way of living. I am not used to family events, and baby showers, and watching sunday football. Sure we do it once a summer or so, but doing it every single week its new to us. We have never lived near family since having kids so this is total adjustment. I love it dont get me wrong, my heart melts every day when my cousin or mom walk in the door and my kids go running up to them. And that I have great relationships with my godson and his sister during these awkward teenage years is priceless to me. I am so thankful for all of this. Even the fact I have time to blog right now while my mom is playing with the kids is amazing. Granted there are some down sides, my kids are spoiled but let them be, they havnt been their entire lives. We also dont have alone time, or quite time because every night diner is at least 5 if not 10 people, so sitting on the couch or chatting on the internet in the evenings is not possible because i love my family time, but it really does take adjusting. Did I mention Tiago sleeps with my mom every single night except maybe 1 or 2 since we got here. Its not so much for her, its because she has the biggest bed and he is a wild sleeper. The biggest difference for me, is there are no papa soccer games. I am shocked to have not been to a game in almost a month. Its just weird., not seeing papa playing, or papa being out of town for games, or reading the newspaper for papa's name and so on. No our weekends are full of supporting Jordan cheer leading and Charger football games. My life almost feels like a normal persons life, which is not something i expected at this point in my life, i know we still have a few more years of life on the road left in us. I cant wait to see what it is going to be like when papa gets here. Although, another plus is the weather, even for locals here, they are saying they cant believe it is this warm this late in the fall. It is extremely hot in the afternoons so we try to go out in the morning or evening, you'd think it was summer. My kids are always in the water, weather showering with me, bathing with each other, or playing in one of the swimming pools, they are always wet. Its great! I almost want to complain and say its too hot but then i hear friends tell me it snowed yesterday in NY and i know i'd rather it be too hot then too cold. As a family we are a skin family, papa hardly has a shirt on, we both live in soccer shorts and i grew up in a bikini, so its great to be back wearing one everyday. Even if i dont get wet, i still put my bathing suit and clean the pool or sweep the backyard, why not? No one can see me and im working on my tan, lol! OK enough of that.. i just had to get that all off my chest.
Back to the kids, since being here we have switched the kids to straw only cups during the day. They are both doing great with it. Thais is completely potty trained during the day, she does great when we go out shopping and to stores, no accidents. I always had this fear of her peeing in the middle of the grocery aisle and its so not the case, i love it. I am so proud of her. Night time is a different story but im not stressing it right now. How ever her attitude has gotten worse but it sour fault. She says exactly what her papa says. Its not a word its a sound and its a "hump" as she tosses her hair, gives evil eyes and walks away. I was laughing and shocked the first time i heard her do it, but right away i knew she got it from her papa because he does that when he is mad but holds in his words. WOW she cracks me up, but we do have to work on it. She has also picked up some words from her teenage cousin, like the word, "whatever" and "awesome". It cracks me up to hear her say them. Tiago on the other hand is non stop with sounds. Not exactly words but man he does not shut up. He makes the sounds of cars and trains and just yells all the time. He still does not say two syllable words but he has learned new words. He tries to say names of everyone, but he continues to use sign language also. He is not allowed to have juice without singing for it. Its so cute! The animals on the other hand have taken some adapting too. Thais is just deathly scared of them, all she does is whine even if they are on the other side of the room, she says, "chewey is going to get my juice" or today the tortoise was on the other side of the pool and she came running in the house saying he was going to get her. It woudl at least take him 10 minutes just to walk around the pool, yet alone catch up to her. She is such a drama queen sometimes. Tiago how ever loves them and is always petting them and pointing to them. Tiago's new love is the pool table, if that kid isnt in a swimming pool, then is is shooting pool on the pool table. He knows how to chalk his stick and he seriously plays up there for hours a day. He loves to line up the balls and have me shoot them real fast, he gets all excited and tries to count with me. Its a heaven for someone who loves balls anyways.
OK i have shared way more than i expected but i had so much to share. Its one thing to show you pictures, but i wanted to fill you in on some of the words, feelings and actions also. So in the end, my favorite part of the day now, is when Thais wakes up and says, "Its a beautiful day mommy' because you know what? It is. Its been in the 80's since we got here, but not just the weather, its beautiful to be with my family too.
This was over the weekend, Rod taught Tiago to blow and lick the pumpkins

The kids having lunch with papa. Even over the internet they ate more with him watching them, then they do with just me or grandma. They talk to papa on skype almost everyday. Its an amazing program that seriously saves our family and its free.

Tiago on his 2nd home, the pool table.

Chillin in the sun on a sunday evening

Have i mentioned my kids are hooked on rice, beans and nachos every day now? Me on the other hand, have tacos, enchilladas, and all the mexican food i can dream of, oh yum!

Jordan got this tent 4 yrs ago and we found it in storage and the kids just love it. The blow up mattress inside is their favorite part.

Inside the tent

Nana took the kids to the park after she got home from work one day, giving me an hour of me time. So nice and they loved it!


The kids got the new vsmile motion video console. They love when I play it, but they are learning how to control it them selves.

Tiago's new train table, which is his new love and we got it for $20, sweet!

My godson teaching my son to skate board, priceless
